Parenting Plans
What is a parenting plan
A parenting plan is an agreement between parents for the day to day care and responsibility of their children. The plan will detail how each of the following parenting issues will be managed:
- the amount of time children will spend at each parents house
- how change over will occur
- education
- health
- co-curricular activities
- holidays
- religious celebrations
- birthdays of parent’s and children
- communicate with children and parents during non contact periods
- time spent with other significant people such as grandparents
- who pays for what
- how will disputes be resolved and when the plan will be revised
- any unique issues relating to the family
Is a parenting plan for me?
The time after separation can be extremely stressful and establishing contact arrangements between both parents and significant people such as grandparents can create needed stability for children.
A parenting plan is appropriate:
- If you have good communication with the other parent
- If you are mostly on the same page when it comes to parenting
- If you need the certainty going forward of a written and signed plan by both parties
- If you would like the ability to mutually change your arrangements without the added formality of going to the Family Court
Parenting plans are not appropriate if:
- Your communication with your ex is poor
- the parties have distinctly different views on parenting
- it is unlikely that the other party will honour the plan
- there has been domestic violence
- You would like long term certainly with the other party being accountable to the Family Court
Parenting Plans and the Family Court
A parenting plan is not enforceable in the Family Court however the most recent parenting plan can be taken into consideration if Family Court Consent Orders are later made.